I am so relaxed not being in school. Really. It's like lying on a tropical beach, except its in Ohio and its raining.  I came here looking for a strong community of Catholics and I found it.It is so disheartening to go to mass in NJ in the middle of a congregation who are preeningthemselves on their spiritual advancement.  Like they are Calvin's elect.I could go on but I won't, I'll save it for another day.